This can be from anyone, loved ones, friends or family but it all has the same ending, you walking away from something you are unhappy about. People think it’s a cowardly action to do but I say you have to be the strongest person to walk away from those that don’t deserve someone like you.
It doesn’t matter who it is, if you are unhappy and its due to an individual or individuals then do what you want and don’t think about them if they are the source. We forget to be selfish in the most important situations but you need to realise that your happiness is just as important as the next persons even though you may not see it, take a step back, look and think what would you tell your closest friend if you was in that situation? You would tell them to make the decision that makes them happy and that’s what you need to do yourself.
Walking away from someone means they are fully out of your life, so be honest with yourself if you are still keeping tabs on them and needing to know what’s going on are you really ready to let go? I think closure is important, so if you need to send that final message and then block and delete I say go for it, it’s time to do you.
I will say that you should wait till you’ve calmed down, I think we can all agree that we have made mistakes while in rage mode and that is fine but we regret those mistakes the most. It took me months before I realised it was time, I definitely should have done it sooner but one night I thought you know what? I’m good and ready. When I made my decision, it felt like a weight had been lifted and I could finally breathe.
I took my own advice and it was the best move I made and I don’t think I will ever look back and regret my decision, when honest with yourself you start to see the truth more and what you’ve been in denial about. Saying goodbye is tough but leaving that negativity is worth it, to know you are strong enough to move on says it all. Don’t be afraid, sometimes making that leap gets you further than you think.
Try not to dwell on it. It may be hard to not think about if that was the right or wrong decision but if you aren’t phased or feel a sense of relief, I’m going to say you may have made the right decision and I think that’s amazing.
Do you, make you happy, have positive people round and enjoy every moment.